A thing I've realised.
Part of why often feel like I'm failing is that I don't get feedback.
When I ask for feedback I genuinely want it (but positive and/or constructive please!!)
If I don't get any feedback I assume I must be doing something wrong, because I know I'm not perfect and I want to be better.
Hmm…
(I also need to get better at giving feedback in some contexts… more hmm…)